Alzheimer’s and Mom’s Birthday
Mom’s birthday was yesterday, July 24.
“Happy birthday, Mom, did you get my flowers?”
I promised myself, don’t ask Mom questions on the phone.� I start over.�
“I’ve been thinking about you all day, wish I were there to help you celebrate your birthday.”
Silence.
“It’s a beautiful day in San Diego.� The sky is clear blue.� I read most of the day, a biography of Lyndon Johnson.”
“David?”
“Hi, Mom.� Yes, it’s me, David.� Remember?”� I stop myself from asking her a question.�
“I love you, Mom.”�
Breath sounds.�
“I hope you know that.”
Was that a question?
“I better go Mom.”
Silence.�
“I love you.”
Silence.
“Bye Mom.”
Silence.�
I wait.� She doesn’t hang up.� A minute passes, I can hear her breathing.� I see her face in my mind’s eye, see her green eyes - they have always appeared to be lit from behind.
“Happy birthday, I hate�birthdays, don’t you?”��Another question.
Silence.
“Mom?”�
Silence.
I hang up first.�
copyright, 2010�
July 26th, 2010 at 10:06 am
Thank you for sharing, it just breaks your heart.